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The Alarming Truth About Maternal Health in the U.S.

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I struggled to keep up with the nurse at the pediatrician’s office as she led us down the hall. I couldn’t understand why she was walking so fast! Didn’t she know I had just given birth?!

I honestly couldn’t believe I had to be dragging my brand new baby and my postpartum body through the clinic at all. Being out of the house felt like being on another planet.

My legs felt like jell-o. I had the worst brain fog ever. I was hungry, thirsty and severely sleep deprived. I was flushed and sweating as I attempted to answer all the questions about my baby.

Just a few days before, this tiny little person had still been a part of my own body. And yet, in those early check-ups I felt excluded from this recent childbirth process. I knew this was routine newborn baby care. But everything about it seemed wrong. All I could think about was how much I wanted to be at home in bed. And that’s exactly where I should have been!

In many ways, our country is a fantastic place to be a mother. But our culture lags behind compared to other developed countries when it comes to postpartum care. For example,  A University of Salford study has shown that complete recovery from childbirth can take up to a year. Yes, a year! Yet, many mothers in the U.S. are expected to be fully functioning and back to pre-baby responsibilities within six weeks!

We often have to seek out our own resources for breastfeeding support or specialized providers if we experience complications.

We have accepted the postpartum care available to us as standard practice. But it’s time that mothers really evaluate their postpartum care needs and take action to be given the care we deserve.   We can learn a lot about how things could be by taking a look at how other cultures take care of mothers after childbirth.


Other countries believe that the only place a new mom needs to be during the weeks of the postpartum period is in bed with her baby.

In the Netherlands, most births occur at home. And as a part of their mandatory private medical insurance, mothers are provided a kraamverzorgster for usually 49 hours over eight days.

This maternity nurse is responsible for helping the mother bond with her baby and oversees her recovery. She provides much-needed breastfeeding support during the first few very challenging weeks.  She works with obstetricians and midwives should complications arise.

While the Netherlands is unique in maternal home care as standard and covered by insurance, a culturally accepted postpartum rest period can be found in cultures around the world. Mothers in China, Mexico and Bali, for example, are expected to stay in bed recovering and bonding with their babies for a month while family members and friends manage the rest of the house.

In the U.S., even if our families and friends support our recovery after childbirth, our culture doesn’t view it as a priority.  Even if we are encouraged by those around us to rest, we still feel we need to be back up and running our households as soon as possible. If we need to see a healthcare provider or lactation consultant, we usually see them in an office and not covered by insurance. So much emphasis is placed on the baby’s health; the mother’s is often overlooked.


Studies show that when a mother is suffering from mental illness, her baby’s social, emotional, language, attention, and cognitive development are adversely affected.

15-25% of women in the U.S. develop postpartum depression. The statistics are similar in other developed countries. So, it may seem that emphasis on postpartum maternal care makes little difference in postpartum depression rates.

However, we receive extreme societal pressure in the U.S. to be back to “normal” six weeks or less postpartum, the numbers do not reflect the mothers suffering with mental illness in silence. The stigma surrounding mental illness and fear of being seen as a “bad mother” prevent many women from being honest with themselves and their doctors. which means our rates are likely much higher than statistics reflect.

Contributing to our prevalence of postpartum depression is the pressure for American moms to breastfeed without in-home support once they leave the hospital. We often hear that “breast is best” and science supports that philosophy. But many women cannot or do not breastfeed for a variety of reasons which takes a toll on their confidence and mental health. Providing thorough, in-home breastfeeding support as standard postpartum care would both increase breastfeeding success and reduce rates of postpartum depression.

But mental health isn’t the only factor to consider. While other countries take steps to ensure physical recovery goes smoothly in the first couple weeks, American women often don’t see a healthcare practitioner until six weeks postpartum. And even then, a pelvic exam is not performed unless a woman thinks there is cause for concern. She has little way of knowing what’s going on with her uterus or pelvic floor muscles until she becomes uncomfortable.  While maternal mental health statistics may be somewhat difficult to solidify, mortality rates taken from the WHO 2013 report are more concrete.  

Sadly they reveal that the U.S. has shocking maternal mortality rates compared to those of other developed countries.

2013 Maternal Mortality Rates

Let that sink in for a minute. 1,200 women died of complications of childbirth in the U.S. in 2013.

A friend of mine is finishing school to become a midwife and women’s nurse practitioner. She sent me some resources for this article in an email and stated, “Basically, it’s a big problem.”

After reading statistics like that I couldn’t agree more and I hope others will too.

It is a very big problem.

Healthy mothers mean healthy children. Healthy children become intelligent, productive, compassionate citizens. Taking care of women during and after childbirth is an obvious step to take to improve many of the challenges our society faces. Sadly, the next few years could very possibly see a drastic downturn in government support for appropriate healthcare.

It’s up to us to ensure that women get the postpartum care we deserve.  Fortunately, there are quite a few things we can do individually and locally to make a difference.



Take some time to become informed. Reflect on your own childbirth and postpartum experiences or those of mothers you know. Think about how things could have been different and the impact it would have made on both mom and baby. Here are some great books to start with!

Postpartum Doulas

Our U.S. equivalent to the kraamverzorgster in the Netherlands is a postpartum doula. More and more women in our country are understanding the importance of having an unbiased, unrelated professional help in the home during recovery. Unfortunately, this much-needed service can be pricey. But, it’s definitely worth researching in your area to find the available providers. And if you really want to make a difference, consider becoming certified as a doula.

Speak Up

Have a discussion with your healthcare providers and let them know your concerns. Talk about some of the mortality statistics and get their input on what could be improved. Also let your local and regional representatives hear your voice. Get the community involved in establishing a group of professionals dedicated to postpartum care. And if you don’t want to stop at the local level you can send your concerns to the Obama Foundation. Changes could really gain some momentum if enough people speak up about the benefits of improving how we care for our mothers.

By becoming informed and making changes lives will be saved. Let's take matters into our own loving, nurturing, strong mama hands and demand the care we deserve.